Express yourself?
Our outer world {OW} tells us: Be yourself, express yourself, believe, imagine…that individuals are free to be who we are.
Then, OW conversation when being and expressing oneself in our shared world is met with canceling energy is to acknowledge that one is being canceled {…you are misunderstood, as many if not most people are} and basically eliminate any hope of being accepted for who one is, because it’s happening to us all. So the narrative simply excuses canceling. Why? Because canceling energy is the foundation of our system. The OW definition of {excuse for} canceling, is judging. This is a judging, and thus canceling, world.
Expressing the sentiment that there is some understanding of one’s feelings and that it is shared experience is doing what? Are we telling people, yes what has happened is canceling you and you best get used to it happening and expect being canceled, there is nothing to be done about it? That has been exactly what it’s felt we are being told. It is just like SORRY. And that is a pathetic excuse for canceling people, as there’s zero expectation of the canceling stopping. And if we’re honest, many people are canceled the majority of their lives; the few who are canceled less are counseling that we all just have to accept or surrender, or are here to serve. So deal with it, and just say you are misunderstood, or judged.
Considering language that ought to be changed, the place to start so far as I see is identify terms that cancel individuals; words such as accept {what you’re given when individuals are here to create for Self}, charity, sacrifice, surrender, and sorry. Sorry, particularly, because it is an admittance that the canceling is supported over the individual.